Revealed: The strategies of asking a girl out even if you are a hopeless nerd! Would you like to make the girl you want to date say 'yes' to you when you are asking her out for a date? Have you been in a situation where you feel so embarrassed when the girl you want to date turn you down through the phone? You don't even get the chance to meet her. While it is common for hotties to go out with hot guys out there, it is not uncommon to see some hotties to hang out with nerds happily too. The key point here is - happily. If this is the case, why can't the nerd be you? Seriously, you do not need to have a nice hair, packed body, good colognes, an expensive car, a bungalow or management position in a multi-national company.