The first manual that won't change you into another person, but it will teach you how to be You.
Welcome to you, who managed to get here If you, just like many others, have always felt wrong, inevitably but inexorably kept comparing yourself to other Women, are tired of the self-help manuals who want to turn you into someone you are not, well then this is the right place for you.
Just so you know, you are not alone. And most of all, what happens to you is normal. The message I want to convey to you through these pages is that you are just fine. I am not saying you are perfect and that you don’t need to keep bettering yourself. I am saying that the first step to become what you are destined to be is to be exactly who you already are. So why this book, you may be asking? And why has this book been written by a criminologist, who takes on many cases of abuse towards women? What do spiritual evolution, self-love, the Light, and abuse on women have in common? I can explain with a simple example. You are looking for a job. You know how much you are worth, what it is that you are looking for, and you know exactly how much money you should be paid. At your job interview, they offer you a dissatisfactory job, way below your capabilities and aspirations, and not properly compensated at all. You stand up, thank them, and walk away. What does this example mean? Well, take this instance and place it into a personal relationship. What would happen if, instead of your boss, that man was a significant other or a boyfriend? Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with a man who does not satisfy you, who does not appreciate you, who does not support you, but actually only tries to manipulate you and make you feel bad? You are not happy with your weight but you are unable to lose it; You hate your job but think you can’t aspire to become anything better; You have a dream but you think you “will never be able to fulfill it”; You wish you could move but have no idea of where to start. When a Woman doesn’t love herself, she only lives a half-life. A body she doesn’t like and doesn’t reflect who she is; A job that doesn’t satisfy her; A place where she doesn’t live the way she’d like to; Friends and relationships that don’t gratify her; An image of herself in which she feels lost. Every time you put something else or somebody else before yourself, you are at risk of losing yourself. I don’t want you to be selfish, but to love yourself, which is different. This book stems from the “Project of Women of Light”, something I have dedicated many years of my life to and that I deeply love. With the Project of Women of Light, I have helped many Women “find themselves before they get lost”! The world needs you.