This is the book that they dont want you to read, controlling mothers, stepmothers and mother-in-laws. These women enjoy keeping others in the dark about their schemes, secrets, lies, true feelings about others, and more. These manipulative matriarchs will look for ways to quiet those who share their blueprints on how they get what they want from submissive, ignorant husbands and docile or needy children. If you have caught on to a deceptive mothers game and are confused, worried or even scared, dont be. You are in control of you! Dont feel bad about not contacting or coming around your mother or someone elses. We live in a society that often puts people down when they are not getting along with their mothers, grandmothers and others who take on motherhood roles. They are told, "That is your mother, you should call her. Dont hold grudges you only have one grandma. If I were you I wouldnt let too much time go by without calling her, you never know when her time or yours might be up."Although many mean well when they advise "what you should and shouldnt do" concerning the woman who gave you birth or someone who helped raise you, the truth is you have to live your life! If it brings you peace to distance yourself from someone who is full of trouble, whether mom or not, you have that right.It can be difficult distancing yourself from Mom, but you have your reasons.· Take back your life and live peacefully among your own family!· Feel free without the stress of a controlling mother and those who act motherly.· Learn how to deal with some of the issues these women throw your way.· Discover more about yourself through this challenging process.· Relate to sons and daughters who have felt like black sheeps or scapegoats.· Teach children how to be more discerning when dealing with their challenging relatives.Packed with useful information, this book validates, encourages and advises those who are thinking about, are in the process, or have already went no contact with difficult moms.You no longer have to worry about or fear your overbearing mother or someone elses because you desire your own personal space.Nicholl McGuire is the author of Know Your Enemy: The Christians Critic, When Mothers Cry, Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate and other books.