What do couples fight about most? Is it sex, money, children, in-laws, or time management? The answer is; none of the above. Couples can get into power struggles over anything. It is not any specific subject, but the act of fighting, that drives us. We want what we don t have and will fight to get it. And this drives a wedge between us and the ones we love. In this book Dr. David B. Hawkins outlines a plan of action to assure that you will never fight again . . . Guaranteed Dr. Hawkins argues for a paradigm shift that will take your relationship from one built on selfishness to one of sacrificial love. Once we do that, we give up the fight, care for ourselves and those around us, and change our hearts for the better.